Destructive things don’t look like bad habits at first but if
they aren’t handled carefully, it could result into bigger problems that
would eventually breakup a relationship
There are many habits that can ruin a couple’s loving relationship, doesn’t matter if you are single or married.
These bad habits include physical and emotional cheating, poor communication, addictions and many others.
Oftentimes, these destructive things don’t look like bad habits at first
but if they aren’t handled carefully, it could result into bigger
problems that would eventually breakup a relationship.
Inspired by Huffington Post, here are 7 habits that can destroy a loving relationship:
Having no common courtesy:
You aren’t single any
longer, learning to include your partner in your plans is simple
courtesy. It shows that you have a lot of respect for them, if the plans
do not go as expected, communicate to your partner why such a thing
happened rather than having a fight about it. You become more
trustworthy to your partner and create a stronger bond when you have
The past is the past which is why it should be left where it is. Single
and married couples often hurt their relationship when they bring up
the past, especially during an argument. Even if a past issue needs to
be thrashed out, it’s advisable to bring it up with care and make sure
your partner understands why you are doing so.
Forgetting to say ‘thank you’:
As much as saying
thank you may not mean a thing to you immediately, it’ll go a long way
in your relationship if you use it often. It’s important to express
gratitude your partner every time, doesn’t matter if they are just
carrying out the simplest of duties.
Talking to each other through texts:
heart to heart conversation via texts is awful for you. As much as
talking to each other through texts could be okay in some instances, it
could cause huge problems in communication if all you do is text each
Single and married couples let distractive
devices such as phones, tabs, computers get in between their
relationships. People have let social media dictate how they treat their
partners too. These continuous distractions slowly kills the emotional
connection you have with your partner.
Speaking ill of your partner:
Saying hurtful things about your
partner to someone else especially in public places is simply horrible.
No single or married relationship is perfect and some things are bound
to drive you crazy, but speaking ill of your partner to someone else is
just downright petty.
Focusing on the negatives:
Everyone has a flaw, so not looking past
your partner’s shortcomings could destroy your relationship. Love can’t
hold this together. For singles and married people, it’s advisable to
treat your partner the same way you’ll treat your best friend or