Lovemaking

Sweet, rosy and dynamic is Love, but bitter and painful with the wrong person

Majority of people have been caught in this web and are stuck; being in love
with the wrong person does not mean you would not have all the
delightful and tickling sensations often experienced by those who are in
love. You are most likely to feel the fluttering of the butterflies in
your stomach and the customary shivers in the spine if you are a
romantic. However, there would always be this feeling of guilt every
time you remember how wrong it is for you to be in love with your
partner at that time. You would also have to worry about the
consequences of your actions and how grave they could be.

Most people regret falling in love with their partners long before they ever
break up. Some feel trapped and do not know if it would be appropriate
walking out of that relationship after all the binding events they might
have been through together. Giving your heart to a man who could never
be with you for one reason or the other could be an example; having an
illicit affair with someone could also cause you that kind of heartache
no matter the depth of your love. There are a whole lot of things that
could be responsible for falling in love with the wrong person. The
variation in these events would not change the signs and feelings you
would have if you have given your heart to the wrong person. Find below
some of the unmistakable signs you will notice once you have fallen in
love with the wrong person:

Relationship

1. When you are filled with doubts
Despite
being in love with someone you have always known for ages, you may
still have this feeling of uncertainty when you reflect on issues. The
uncertainties you feel spring up as a result of the behavior your
partner puts up when with you. Most people trust their instinct as it
has never failed them. Thus, when you are filled with fear despite being
in love with a person, it could be a sign you have given the wrong
person your heart.

Unhappy couple

2. When you are unhappy 
Your
happiness comes first when it comes to relationships; whatever deprives
you of your happiness is definitely not worth doing. One thing that
would let you know how wrong you have been with falling in love with a
person is sadness. Being in love should fill your heart with joy and
make you want to spend the rest of your life having happy moments. But
when you are constantly in pain and heart torn over the decisions you
have taken with that person, it is a big sign you have given your heart
to the wrong person.

Anxiety

3. When you constantly worry about the future 
Being
in love is definitely exciting; you find yourself longing for more and
enjoying the company of your partner. A day apart could be like a
thousand years to you; but when you do not look forward to being with
the person you have fallen in love with and given your heart to, there
is a big problem.

Dreading what the future holds with
your partner is a sign you have totally missed it and have entrusted
your heart to the wrong person. It should be noted that some people fall
in love just for the fun of it; their weird way of passing time. Continue

Source: naij.com

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