times, men have gotten it all wrong in terms of pleasing a woman or
wanting to please a woman. It is quite unfortunate that what most men do
is to pant over unsolved puzzle but forget to solve the simple
arithmetic. To tell you the honest truth, SEX is not the KEY to pleasing
a woman. Do you want to please a woman? it could be your spouse or
partner, all you got is to take these steps;
true love is embellished with care; lots of care. It is all about
caring and must be of affection. A woman’s mind is bought when a man
shows he cares. So, If you love a woman unconditionally, there is every
tendency that nature-extraordinary takes place without struggling for
it. Like as I said, ”True love”. Pour her the affections with all your
heart and don’t fake it as if you are looking for some adventures in
her. Go extra miles to do the uncommon, do it as part of you and not to
please. You will see her begging for your love.
times, women want you read their heart, see through it and proffer
solutions. They may not want to mention it because some of them as well
feel shy to say it or wanting you to show or bring the man in you. Make
provisions for her in your life (time, money and materials).
the care, send the affection and you will buy her off. In all these add
little flavour of romance to it so you catch them quick like the
SINCERITY – Not
all women want sincerity of heart. You may wonder why I’m saying this.
Yes! It is the truth. Out of 100% of woman in the world, maybe 70% ain’t
in for genuine love likewise men. But below 30% there are women who
want sincerity from every man they are dating. They want to know every
bit of time they are spending with you. In fact any woman that is in
LOVE will want her guy or hubby to be truthful to her at all time. Even
the HIT and RUN folks in most of their activities still need sincerity.
So, it is important, a must for that matter if you want to stay long in a
PAMPER – Every
woman want her man to pamper her. Both old and young want that but does
the MAN want to? Well, if you ask me, it is called, NATURE. It is in
the nature of a woman to be handled with care so, why not try it. She
will love it when you show it to her.
But I must warn, do not OVER-PAMPER her.
GOOD SEX – Yes,
That’s want every one wants to know. To tell you the truth, SEX is
sweet, horny and pleasurable but it is not done the way it should be
Well, lets leave this for another day but read this; The Aspect of Lovemaking in a Relationship
What woman want in a man continues. In my last note I stated most of what she really needs from a man which cuts across;
- Care and Affection
And today I will state few other requirement she needs from a man.
Before I dive into sex, I have to state important one amongst them which is,
Women pleasure security most times, they don’t hate insecurity. Any man
who can not protect a woman shouldn’t be called MAN.
you can not protect your spouse or partner when needed then be prepare
to lose her to another man. He wants who will stand by her should any
harassment, abusive or molestation comes. When you stand out to protect
her then you become her hero. Try it an see how it works.
Yes, sex! It is a three letter word small but powerful. This three
letter word has built a home, relationship, community and at the same
time destroyed them. If sex is performed in an appropriate way, pursue
with good intention then it becomes pleasurable and built unending
You may argue it that every man born by a
woman needs sex, want sex in every 24 hours. Yes, it is the truth. The
hormones, though it differ but always react when a woman, especially a
good and attractive woman is around. Have you been around or with a
woman that is not your wife or partner yet your chemistry reacts? Don’t
be shy to say YES, because it does happen. But been a man is for you to
control and switch off the hormone.
Men like sex
likewise women. So, how do you know when a woman want sex? How do you
know how long she wants it and how she wants it.